<p>Hey Gilbert S.,
Welcome to CC and the PARENT'S FORUM. Most of the PARENTS here have kids in high school and college, so that means that we went to college in the 60's, '70's and '80's. Guess what? There was no Facebook, MySpace, cell phones, text messaging.... So, Alumother's question doesn't call for a snide comment. We "parents" don't all know the answer to this question since we didn't have this kind of experience. <climbs carefully="" down="" off="" high="" horse=""></climbs></p>