<p>Listen to the words of Bobbie McFarren's "Don't Worry; Be Happy". It is an open letter to his parents, who pushed him into Julliard (from which he dropped out, to later graduate from Sacramento City College) to become the "great African-American Schubert player."</p>
<p>You are more likely to get on each other's nerves more after all the acceptances are in and decision made, in the process of separation. Maybe you should start working on a Cheerios necklace for her, too.</p>
<p>While I'm at it, let me recommend one of my favorite books to you: "The Art of Ingeniously Tormenting".</p>