<p>I just re-read. So you only have to do the diet if you say ..when the letters come in. I don't think you will say any of the forbidden words when the envelopes arrive. You will hug her with either outcome.</p>
<p>My son met your daughter on my birthday. He called because it was my birthday. I remember asking if he met Carolyn. The answer was something like "no, I think she just dropped her daughter off and drove away." I got the feeling son thought that your daughter was very lucky to have a nice mom who didn't meddle like his mom probably would wanted to do.</p>