<p>Kjofkw, we had few rules but one of them was about EC's, starting in K: you have to do at least one activity outside of school. You can change any time you want but must then stay with the new activity for at least a year. Formed the expectation early and it was no problem. Of course, this elaborate plan wasn't needed because her first activity was ballet and she never looked back and was thoroughly cemented after she had a walk-on with San Francisco Ballet at the Music Center.</p>