<p>I’ve wanted to say this for a long time. If we could put aside our differences on issues for a moment - on a forum like this, one individual has “one voice”, no more no less. When you keep saying “we those who have ‘lived though’…” “we who have been in it and therefore know stuff…”, and/or imply that there is a whole group of people who pm’ed (or maybe appealed?) you to represent them to express a certain opinion because for some reason they are intimidated to do so themselves, it’s frankly dishonesty. You may have said something someone else wanted to say but so has any other poster. You can’t say you represent a “defined group” because you just don’t.</p>