<p>It is obvious that Elite University, where my d was accepted but received no aid, only wants the children of the rich, or of the poor, to attend their school (or the children of those parents who lied on their FAFSA).
Honest, hard-working, middle class folks who try to save some of their money and don't blow it on a new car every two years and a house twice as large as they need and on running up credit card debt, get screwed in the financial aid process.</p>
<p>We've been saving for 20 years and not over-spending, unlike most of the families around us, and now we're being asked to dump all our money into the coffers of an "elite" private school and borrow all the other money we'll need to pay exhorbitant tuition.</p>
<p>No wonder this country is so scewed up. Another generation of spendthrifts will be rewarded for their bad habits by free school and access to power, where they can turn around and perpetuate the process all over again. They'll fill out forms to have the Government bail out their bad home loans at the same time they fill out forms accepting "need" based aid from elite schools. Unless their parents are rich and can simply write a check for the tuition, in between their country club dues and imported-cheese-of-the-month payment.</p>
<p>Sigh...I shouldn't have listened to my parents and grandparents. I should have sipped champagne on my beer budget...and just gotten someone else to pick up the tab. </p>
<p>The word "bitter" has been worked over in the press lately, but it is a very appropriate word to describe the way I feel. </p>
<p>Maybe we'll just have our D take a year off, but not to work and to save more money and learn about the tough knocks of life. Instead, we're going to spend all our savings (and go into debt by borrowing) and take a trip around the world going first class the whole way, blow all our money, and then when we apply to those "elite" schools again, our D will receive some financial aid.</p>
<p>Or...maybe I WILL listen to my parents and grandparents and send my kids to the state universities my tax dollars support (taxes...now that's another thing the rich and poor don't have to worry about, but that's a whole 'nother thread on a whole different web site) which are still expensive but at least not ridiculous. </p>
<p>I urge all you other bitter, ****ed off middle class parents out there to rage against the machine, rise up against the system, and send your kids to State U and to hell with sending your kids to "elite" private schools. If enough top quality kids from the middle class go to State U, then State U will be an even better place to educate the future leaders of America. And maybe some of those future leaders will grow up and fix this problem some day.</p>