When CC posters talk about “elite colleges being worth it”, they speak of strong (and wealthy) alumni networks, advantages in obtaining certain East Coast jobs, and being a “shoo-in” to top graduate programs with the world’s leading experts. Each of these are more or less measurable with a concrete dollar amount (MBB may pay 50k more starting to new grads than middle-of-the-barrel consulting groups, etc.), and the actual effective value of this dollar amount can be hotly debated.
I would like to shed light on the more abstract aspects “prestigious” schools. There is no way to quantify the glint in someone’s eyes when your educational background comes up even in a casual conversation, and you can list a famous school as your alma mater. There is no way to quantify the "wow"s, the "you must be smart"s, the smiles and admirational looks from people of all ages. But, despite not having material value, these nuances provide social status and social capital for your 40 working years after your 4 in college.
I would argue that the status, depending on your social circle, could be the most valuable aspect of going to a prestigious university. This is especially true of certain immigrant communities of the US (mine included). For my community as an example, the school you go to is only partially about you. Another large part of attending a prestigious school is the prestige for the rest of your family; our children are the absolute pride and joy of our parents, and the success of children directly correlate to the social standing of their parents in the community. Hence the parental pressure on academic success and attendance to a brand-name university. I truly hope this post provides some context to the large number of posts on CC that are akin to this:
Demographics: White (Middle Eastern, 1st gen)
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Schools: All Ivies, Stanford, UCLA, UCB, …
Now, as a numbers guy myself, I should probably provide some numbers relating to the COA. I will again use my situation as an example, as a computer science major (surprise!). My state flagship (T10 for CS) will have a 4-year average COA of $35k/year. The elite public school I’m attending (OOS, T20 overall) has a 4-year average COA of $60k/year. Stanford (for comparison’s sake) has a 4-year average COA of $85k/year. Over 4 years, I will have to scrape together $100k more for my school than if I had stayed in-state, and I would have had to pay $200k more for Stanford had I been admitted. On the surface, these six-figure differentials seems significant. That is, until you consider the fact that $100k is the equivalent of 1 year of total compensation in my field, AFTER federal and state income tax.
Now of course this is not for everyone. Those needing significant financial aid and/or are not studying high ROI fields should be acutely aware of their financial saliency, and choose a college accordingly. Those planning on further education (e.g. med school, law school) really only need to consider the prestige of their final degree. And those who don’t really mind where they go to college, congrats! you just saved enough to buy 150 iPhones, 3 cars, or a down payment on a house!
But for a large number of nervous rising seniors here on CC, a (let’s be honest) large percentage of applicants in general to “elite colleges”, and me personally, are 1-2 years of salary worth the social prestige that follows you and your family for the rest of your life? The question answers itself.
NOTE: As was hopefully clear in the post, I do not intend to generalize, nor claim in any way to speak on any culture/ethnicity other than strictly my own.