<p>I may be biased, but judging by the schools you are interested in and what you liked/disliked about each of them, I think Wesleyan would be a great fit for you. I was also looking for a diverse, intellectual, laid back (in some ways but not others) environment, a non-“Average Joe” student body, a good music department, a place where I could enjoy myself without smoking/drinking, and a good “name”, and I chose Wesleyan. Feel free to message me if you’d like :)</p>
<p>I think you may find Oberlin too “out there”, but who knows. All of them seem like great choices and great fits for you!</p>