@IxnayBob we have some real unique issues with our kids, we have one daughter who attends on a very high need based scholarship to a elite prep school, her sister is joining her on similar scholarship to prep school too, Older daughter has done very well in school despite taking a very challenging course load, problem is being Asian and needing need based aid limits the number of school that she can apply and get admitted, Honestly we were thinking to send her back to Korea, for schooling and my husband has been against her attending prep school as financially it was not possible for us, but since then things have changed, we are also moving to NY this summer, so hopefully instate school will provide us a good back up plan. Please forgive my stupid questions as Yale is one of the school that is need blind for my daughter.