There is something wrong in my FA decision

<p>I am an international applicant who had applied Oberlin and was latter admitted. I really love this college and hope to enroll. However, my family can only afford $40,000 per year whereas Oberlin only offer me $1000 employment, which does clearly not meet my needs. I wrote to them several times but got no replies. What should I do to appeal financial aids or could anyone deduce what? </p>

<p>I mean what happened to my FA application. And if I appeal, will it withdraw my offer?</p>