Ucb, why should I give specifics, when I continually advocate applicants look deeper, on their own? Having the sort of independent look at what’s there, being that sort of energized thinkers. And bear in mind that, over multiple threads, none of the folks criticizing the elites have ever pm’d for more details. When kids do, I don’t tell some recipe. I generally encourage them to look deeper, first. Some do, then we chat. Their apps vastly improve. Not because I’m, as ucb has continually pointed out, I’m an “insider.” But because these kids round out their understanding. They do it, not me.)
And I’m not criticizing, I’m pressing a point or two. No, you do not need to see apps (I only see them for one college. I know about others from my own digging into what they say and show, other than superficials.) But it’s not as elusive as some think. I do wonder who’s tried. I can tell you that HYS isn’t picking based on natl/intl awards and Wharton doesn’t pick based on your side venture that earned you $XXXX. How? Not from someone explaining it to me.) That point is: you’d learn more, if you did see apps. You’d see that, even top performers are not the special snowflakes we wish.
Want an example? Need it? This is tough because, for folks who distrust holistic, there’s been a tendency to shoot the messenger. And I am heavily editing.
Here it is, ime/imo. Most kids flub their apps. I love the age group, it’s full of promise and energies. But they heed advice to, eg, write the essay only they can write. That can be picked up off the floor and recognized as you. (Huh? The TTs are looking for traits and insights, related to your hs and soon-to-be-college “you,” not some random tale.) It doesn’t need to be unique, it needs to be relevant to an admit review. And posters tell them not to make hs decisions based on what colleges look for, when these kids are trying to get into those colleges that do have expectations. Posters say, it’s about “passions.” Not. It’s more about follow through and stretch, the vision to know there’s more and go for it. It shows in the recordor not. I point out that, for TTs, especially for stem, you need math/sci ECs. Only to get blowback anecdotes that it didn’t matter 20+ years ago, when some poster applied. Or they know a kid who didn’t, and got into xxx.
Plus all this emphasis on stats. (“With those stats, you’ll get into at least one Ivy.”) They’re vital, but not all. Or the idea you can look at the CDS and see the hierarchy of wants-- no, it all matters. No, just showing grade improvement is no “it,” when thousands of other applicants had no rough spot.
Having a legacy parent, having lots of books at home, sports camp, etc, are not what reflects the individual’s own thinking and awareness, what they actually did and accomplished in hs. Some legacy parents can advise, yes. (Many of “us” who aren’t legacy could guide our kids.) But not enough to sweep a hand out and declare some absolute advantage. If a kid shorted something, sorry, there are plenty of others in line who didn’t.
Yes, some preps groom kids. But they aren’t pointing all kids at TTs, only the select few they feel are the right match. Others get energetically pointed at other tiers. Yes, some even facilitate internships. Etc. Some have essay writing or AP test prep classes. But in the end, it comes down to this kid’s app, what he or she has actually done and chooses to present. And how they do.
Transparency? Formula? Even if you had it, you face very rough odds. If you ask for formula, can’t figure out much on your own, are you the sort they look for?
This isn’t even about donations, for the vast majority of legacy families.
If you could see apps, you’d get an idea of the thin line between kids, how much comes across as ok, not great. If you could see notes, you’d learn more about the reaction to this app, than a rating reflects.
So, shoot me? These are great kids, but not all will get one of the limited spots.
And fair? How can it ultimately be fair, when the problem starts with 40+K apps being boiled down to 2k? It’s a tough game. A rotten tough one. Posting before I edit most of this out.
I do like these kids. But it’s an app process, not a given.