Here are some random thoughts that I’d like to share with the “new to the whole paying for college crowd” that might be helpful as you are stressing on how you’re going to make it.
1> Sending a child off to college decreases your personal spending. One of the thing that is amazing to me is how much $1 here $5 there I spend on my kids when they are at home. My oldest went off to school 3 years ago and the cost was significant and we as a family went through an itemized budget of our new expenses, but we didn’t remove any costs. Things to consider. Will your child be driving while at school? If not, your insurance company can change his/her status on your policy to a still covered in case he/she drives on a weekend, but for the most part inactive and the cost is pretty significant. Especially when you have two to drop, like I do this year. Two teenagers eat a lot! Our grocery bill has dropped by 20%. I don’t have to put gas in a car as much and I don’t have to drive to as many events. Those $5 football games on weekends are gone. The “Dad can I have some money to go to the movies” is pretty much gone too. I don’t know what the amount is, but on a monthly basis we are probably spending 10-15% less then we did with one at home.
2> There is no insignificant amount of money. Things like “NFL Sunday Ticket” on DirectTV is expensive, especially if the reason you got it isn’t at home anymore. A yearly subscription, almost covers one semester’s worth of books. That $435 Kiwanis’s scholarship that you shrugged at? My middle son was able to get a summer job where he’s helping a local person set up a business. He makes about $200/wk and over 12 weeks, $2400 helps. My oldest started TAing in school and now is pretty much self-sufficient on everything except tuition and room/board. He even had a car at school his second year and payed for repairs, gas, insurance…
3> I sat down with both boys as we did the “how are we going to pay for this exercise.” They both now know what the rest of the family is sacrificing to make it possible for them to go to school. They both stepped up and helped by suggesting how the family might pass on a weekend event to help here, or pointing out things like “do we really need to go out to eat tonight?” They both figured what portion they can be responsible for and how to contribute.
4> The 529 we started for each of them when they were little and I struggled writing the check for 18 years really helped. It wasn’t nearly enough to pay for all of school, but I can tell you that the happiest check I wrote was that first draw on the 529 balance. “This makes paying a little every month so much more satisfying.” If you are reading this now and your kids are just starting college next fall, even as little as $100/paycheck helps.