OK, challenge accepted. I feel at a bit of a disadvantage, since our S has only just spent his first semester there, but he’s loving it and is so happy that that makes us happy too! Clearly Maryland was the right choice for our family.
Right off the bat, I have to mention the homemade ice cream – one of my favorite things on the UMd campus and pretty much a never-miss for us whenever we visit.
Now, tagging onto @maryversity’s items and adding my own comments:
@maryversity said
-living learning communities to make a smaller community - it’s easy to make a big school seem smaller, but you cannot make a small school bigger!
I fully agree! This is one of the best things about our S’s experience – he’s in a really small dorm (Anne Arundel Hall, for Honors Humanities) and it definitely gives him a “comfort zone”. He enjoys the community of freshmen and sophomores there, and in particular has enjoyed being around music/theater majors (“It’s not considered nerdy here, Mom!”). There’s a piano in the basement, so he can go down there and just play and sing when he needs some “alone time” (something I had wondered about, being on such a populous campus). He’s also meeting kids who are involved other activities, and has even been swept along to the gym to work out with some of them (first time ever for our S to spontaneously visit a gym, AFAIK)!
@maryversity said
-there is a club for just about every interest you can imagine - over 800, I believe
Yes – S considered joining ballroom dancing (some friends were involved with that); eventually went to a meeting of the Shakespeare club at the urging of someone else (who didn’t even show up), and now he’s a regular and will appear in a production this spring.
@maryversity said
-one of the most diverse schools around - some schools you get a certain feel of being very competitive, or very preppy or very superficial…you can’t define Maryland with any one adjective. Everyone fits. Every group is represented. Typically, most students have multiple groups of friends - some they study with, some they hang out with, some they do activities with, some they go to parties with…you name it.
I agree – S seems to have made friends in every class, not just his major – even his honors calc class bonded together (maybe bc it was fewer students? I’m not sure) and studied together (a new thing for our S – I don’t think he ever studied in a group in HS). They had a somewhat odd calc professor, but they bonded over that and set up (gentle) group pranks riffing off some of the remarks the teacher made in class. Actually sounded like a fun math class! (He is fully supported and flourishing in his major, but I expected that; I’m especially psyched to see how he’s loving the other classes he’s taking.)
I should mention that our S is a bit of an introvert, so I give his fellow students a lot of credit for being very friendly and including him in activities.
Also (RE not being able to “define” Maryland) – so true. I know for some people, UMd is a big fraternity/sorority school with an active party scene, but Dan is having a totally different experience from that – he’s having loads of fun in his own way, but not at all the frat life.