I’m finishing my first year in architecture soon. I got good grades in high school, like drawing, and come from a line of architects and for some reason I thought that was good enough.
I’m kind of at my breaking point. I’m depressed and anxious. I feel disconnected and disinterested in my classes, no matter how hard I try otherwise. I called my mom back in October about feeling like this and she told me to chin up and keep going bc it gets better, and I wanted so badly for her to be right so I did, but I feel like I’m pretending and it’s exhausting. I just realized one day that I wasn’t enjoying any of it, and it scares me. I always hear that this isn’t the career for anyone who wasn’t Very Passionate™ about their work, and I see why.
A part of me thinks that it’s my (long time) depression and anxiety that’s just making everything feel worse. The other part is struggling to justify 20+ hour days, tuition costs, suicidal thoughts, not having any (literally) hobbies or social life, for projects that I don’t care about as much as I thought I would.
Somehow I can be so vague and yet take up so much space. Idk. It feels good to put this out there. What are my options? Stay; quit; take a year off? (Is that a thing people do once they’re already in university?)