<p>Alright I asked out this girl 2 weeks ago...she said she had a boyfriend and they got into a relationship 3 days before I asked her out. (I verified this to be true). I found out that she and her boyfriend have a lot in common, like birthday and college major. </p>
<p>One day we both we out on a trip for class (for group project). The entire subway ride her arm was rubbing up against mine and she kept saying stuff like "you know, sometimes people who have a lot in common tend to have boring relationships. Opposites attract" and blah blah. So I took this as a hint that she liked me. Then later on she's like "ok im sorry I wasn't flirting with you. I have a boyfriend. Bye" and she walks off. </p>
<p>Then 4 days after that I catch her waiting by the door for me after class and she's blushing and crap. </p>
<p>Then 2 days after that she tells me again that she has a boyfriend and she's sorry.</p>
<p>The other day we were walking together when she suddenly took off without saying anything. Next day shes like "im sorry i ran off like that. i didn't know what i was thinking"</p>
<p>Day after, we walked out of class together. We split up and I walked by myself for 15 minutes, turned around, and she was 10 feet behind me! I pretended not to notice though. FYI: Her dorm is the OPPOSITE direction.</p>
<p>what do i do? how do i approach this? it's winter break now and I sent her a facebook message. She wrote a long one back. I responded and she hasn't wrote back for days. I told her I wanted to be friends. She said cool. Well, not responding to my messages doesn't really make us friends does it. I really want to get with her again but what should I do. Usually I'm creeped out by this but I think she's a really sweet/shy girl who basically SUCK at handling emotions. Should I contact her again or wait till next semester?</p>
<p>Well, apparently she’s into you. So if you wanna be with her go ahead an tell her. She’ll probably say yes. And if she says no, she’ll probably think about it and change her mind a few days after.</p>
<p>If you don’t wanna be with her but just wanna be friends, ignore her and maybe try to talk to her again in a few months.</p>
<p>Just my opinion. However, from you side of the story she seems to have some kind of emotional problem, so be careful.</p>
<p>Hit it and forget it. She’s screwing with you and her boyfriend enough now, you’ll just be on the wrong side of her stupid games if you actually date her.</p>
<p>confront her at a serene or sentimental moment with the radio playing a romantic song or something, look deep into her eyes for a few seconds, tell her “roxanne, you dont have to put on the red light,” and dive in for the kiss.</p>
<p>Well, I would be very leery about dating someone willing to cheat on their boyfriend. Odds are she will cheat on you if you get together with her. Probably with the boyfriend she just broke up with.</p>
<p>Sounds exactly like a movie I saw on Shotime. </p>
<p>Except the guy ended up freezing to death after being abandoned on the side of the road during a blizzard, and the girl was captured by evil maniacal zombies who fed on her flesh.</p>