this is what an engineer looks like

I’m not sure that the dollar bills thing was about. Was that to suggest that she’s really a pole dancer? If so, what the heck was HR doing when this was going on?

this didn’t even go on when I worked in the industry 20+ years ago.

We were sometimes subjected to, “oh you’re a cute little girl” sort of thing from the old guys, but certainly not from peers.

lol…I remember when H and I got engaged. He was in the dept next to mine. My boss made some remark at raise time like, “Oh, you don’t need to get a big raise, you’re getting a second income.” HOWEVER, H’s boss told HIM, “I know that you’re getting married, so you can count on getting a big raise.”

Hmmmph!