Tips for College Visits

<p>Lots of great ideas so far! If you haven’t done any college visits, I recommend you visit 2 or 3 colleges that are nearby before you head off on a grand tour. It helps to “practice” on a couple of schools that you aren’t interested in before you tour a top choice school. </p>

<p>Let the student take the lead in greeting admissions staff; parents hang back and let the student do most of the talking. For some students, this is a big stretch out of their comfort zone. It is a little tricky in that the student should be able to talk about their accomplishments, but not in a way that sounds like bragging. Sometimes that takes a few practice conversations.</p>

<p>Younger siblings might get some value from tagging along on college visits, but they can also be a distraction. I chose not to bring my younger child along, and just enjoyed the travel time with my D. </p>

<p>College visits can feel staged at times, as you are herded through an academic building on a tour. And food in the dining hall on group visit days is always better than if you visit on your own. But you can still get some good information on a group tour day, you just have to filter out some of the “yeah us” talk coming from the admissions staff.</p>

<p>Be sure to speak with several students on each campus, just “regular” folks who are not part of the admissions team. People who are not being paid to be nice to you. Strike up conversations in the bookstore, coffee shop, or dining hall. Ask students why they chose this school, and what they like/don’t like about it now.</p>

<p>I am a firm believer in getting a student’s “feet on the ground” of as many college campuses as possible. I believe it helps them form opinions about the type of school they can best succeed at.</p>

<p>Good luck!</p>

<p>Find out if there is a graduate from your high school attending the college that you are visiting. If so, try to coordinate a meet up or lunch with that student. We found this to be wonderful and very informative. </p>

<p>@Little Mother: the spreadsheet idea has helped my D keep herself organized after each visit.</p>

<p>We only visit one college per trip. After info session and tour (same after awhile) have lunch with students in the dining hall. They are a GREAT source of “inside” info. When going through the dorms, look at bulletin boards and chat with students in the rooms. </p>

<p>D had fun joining in some games on the quads of several schools. Visit area around campus…get idea of safety, businesses, activities, etc.</p>

<p>Send email/note afterward. My D loves the personal cards and phonecalls from the guides and even has email exchanges with some students at her favorite schools.</p>

<p>Very helpful thread! Bookmarking it.</p>

<p>Take photos!</p>

<p>As part of what I call my 15 minute college tour, I have a few recommendations for determining the intellectual atmosphere on campus. This is from a veteran who found that my kids pretty much got the feel of a school within the first two minutes. How that campus looked, how the students were dressed, etc. Atmospherics. But there’s a bit more to learn, and it might take a little longer.</p>

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<li><p>Go to the library. Not to see the collections but to see what the students are doing there. Are they actually reading or studying? You then know you’ve got a serious student body. Are they flitting about in conversations of one kind of another, flirting, or making noise? You have a party school.</p></li>
<li><p>Go to the bathroom, literally the bathroom in the library. Take a seat. Read the graffiti. If there’s no graffiti, then either the mad eraser has come by to clean up the history, or you have marble walls. However, if there is graffiti, then if the graffiti is the usual scatological roses are red stuff, varied references to where to go to have a good time (and with whom), you have a low-brow campus. But if instead you have serious poetry, such as the epic poems that were common at my undergraduate college, then you have an intellectual student body. At my college, over time visitors to the stalls would add another stanza and literally a few feet of space could be filled with smart (and yes sometimes scatological) analysis of the nature of human society, etc. This could go on for months until the mad eraser came around and washed or painted it over.</p></li>
<li><p>Go to a coffee shop, on or near campus. Buy some coffee, take a seat near other people, and listen in on conversations. This used to be a more informative approach back when students read books rather than stared into their computer screens with their ears plugged. But can still be informative. Are students talking about serious political matters or news, about their reading or homework or research assignments? You’ve got students who are interested in the world or in education. Are the students texting away on their cellphones in solitary activity, their heads bobbing with the sound in their ears, with no social interaction at all? Hard to figure for sure, but this is very unlikely to speak well for a serious intellectual focus.</p></li>
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<p>I know these suggestions may seem facetious, but for me, and for my kids, the feel of a campus was more than the architecture and facilities, the quality of the athletics, or the food in the dining room. It was knowing what the students were like and how they interacted with one another. With this in mind, I couldn’t agree more with those who’ve suggested that you read the bulletin boards in the dorms or posted elsewhere around campus. </p>

<p>Of course, you can learn more by taking an hour to attend a class, especially if it’s a smaller class in seminar/discussion format. (What’s the point of sitting in on a large lecture? You can often find those on the web.) Sometimes in that situation, the teacher will engage you, invite you to speak if you wish. If you can, introduce yourself to the professor as you enter (don’t just show a permission pass). At one college, we had a wonderful interaction in a class, and you could sense that the students were thinking and engaged and smart. At another, the professor talked, the students were totally passive. What do you learn from that?</p>

<p>But my basic premise is that in most college visits you can learn most of what’s important to learn in just 15 minutes. There was more than one campus that we visited and my kids wanted to leave within 5 minutes. A half day of driving, a 5 minute “oh no.” OK, bad decision to go there; should have researched more. But it was time to cut our losses.</p>

<p>^^ so much insight on college visit! Thanks.</p>

<p>Try to eat at least one meal on campus and at least one meal at an off-campus hangout.</p>

<p>" Go to the library. Not to see the collections but to see what the students are doing there. Are they actually reading or studying? You then know you’ve got a serious student body. Are they flitting about in conversations of one kind of another, flirting, or making noise? You have a party school." I think this is going to be very hard to judge unless you are quite familiar with the school. Most schools will have both types of library. The kids know that certain libraries, or certain floors of certain libraries are more of a social scene and others are “no talking zones” for serious studying. We’ve had several tour guides tell us specifically about this.</p>

<p>There are always quiet spots in libraries, such as in reading areas in the stacks; just like there are always goof-offs and honors students at every college. My suggestion is to go to the main reading room if there is one. At some schools I’ve visited this is a fashion parade of one kind of another. At others the students are actually reading something. </p>

<p>I also suggest NOT bringing a younger sibling along. In fact, don’t bring any family member who doesn’t want to be there.</p>

<p>Personally, I think sitting in on a class is over-rated–it might give you a false impression, because every college has better and worse classes.</p>

<p>I would suggest NOT buying the t-shirt. You will not want t-shirts from colleges that reject you.</p>

<p>Take a posed picture of your kid at each school. You’ll be happy to have the one from the school he/she ultimately attends.</p>

<p>If you have to choose between the info session and the tour, take the tour. If you can choose the tour guide, choose the one with the loudest voice.</p>

<p>I agree sitting in a class is overrated. My kids did like getting t-shirts, though.
Let your kid be up in front during the tour - hang behind if need be.<br>
Biggest lesson: SHUT UP about your own impressions. Let the kid be the first to talk and give his / her impressions when all is said and done. And don’t try to “correct” them unless they are clearly based on misinformation.</p>

<p>I think you can visit two colleges in one day if they are close to each other, but I prefer one a day. Try to visit on weekdays (February and spring break are ideal, we New Yorkers can also visit colleges in late August and early September since the school year starts late.)</p>

<p>Tours trumps info sessions, but info sessions can give you good insights into how a college perceives themselves which may be something you want to include in your “Why ___ College?” essay. (For example, Tufts talks a lot about global citizenship, social justice and taking action now.) </p>

<p>My advice for picking tour guides is the one in your prospective major if possible, if not pick the drama student!</p>

<p>Otherwise I’m pretty much an echo:
Eat a meal in the dining hall
Do an overnight, but realize you are just seeing one person’s view
Do a tour, but realize you are just seeing one person’s view
Have a snack somewhere else on campus
Check out the library
Check out the surrounding area
Check out the office area of your prospective major
If you are there for prospective student events, most clubs will have a booth or activity, check them out - these are likely to be your friends.</p>

<p>Oh finally, I like to ask tour guides or other people if there was one thing they could change for the better about their college what would it be?</p>

<p>I always ask about construction. It is interesting to see what is new and what is in the works. It gives you an indication of the money available for major projects and where they want to spend their funds.</p>

<p>One college a day just isn’t at all feasible for those of us who have to travel and who have to take advantage of spring break and the like. I think it’s quite possible to do 2 a day and be fine. We did Tufts/Brandeis, Wellesley/Clark, Smith/Mt Holyoke, Bryn Mawr/Haverford, Case Western/Kenyon, and I think Georgetown/American as pairs. </p>

<p>One of the parents asked the tour guide at this very nice college in an urban setting / close to downtown:
" how safe is the area ? the bus ? "
tour guide replied " I carry a pepper spray at all time ".</p>

<p>Our “fine arts school” (plus a couple of other types) for my daughter and a classmate took us to 10 schools over 10 days – starting in Michigan, and then to Oberlin, CMU, Pratt, Cooper Union, NYU, RISD, BU, Colby, Bennington, Ithaca College, plus a couple of days on the Maine coast. It worked: generated two applied-to’s (RISD, CMU) and two admits (and my DD accepted and attended RISD). This was, however, during a vacation break and that meant some of these schools were rather sparsely populated. This was the only practical way to arrange this tour, given the kids’ school schedule and my own vacation time.</p>

<p>Oh and another piece of advice, keep an eye on religious holidays. It wasn’t Passover yet when we visited Brandeis, but the campus was clearing out fast. I’ve never seen so many kids with suitcases!</p>

<p>Both of our sons ultimately chose schools that were not on their early lists. In both cases, we visited just because we were in the area, so thought we might as well stop by. And in both cases, our sons ended up putting those schools at the top of the list after visiting. So, my advice is check out as many schools in person as you can; you might be surprised at how different you feel about some schools when you visit. The other really helpful thing was to have our sons (not us, our sons) talk to current students at the schools they were considering, especially students in the majors our sons hoped to pursue. Very enlightening.</p>

<p>Oh and yes, as Hanna says…EAT IN THE DINING HALL! We learned a ton in there. </p>