Im shy and reserved, dont like to party or drink. I like football, and am probably going to join a few clubs as well as hike and stuff in the surrounding mountain area. I can be a socially awkward when Im nervous but Im not when Im comfortable around people. Any tips for me? Im also going to visit PSU to see if I like the atmosphere.
Have you thought of a smaller school? 40,000 students is daunting. But, it’s all what you make it.
I’m a current student here, and as someone who was in your exact position, my advice for you, if you do choose to come here, would be to join any clubs that might interest you. I am currently involved in 3 on-campus organizations, and have really found that it was very easy for me to make friends this way. That being said, there are always going to be times when you may have to step out of your comfort zone, but that is just a part of going to college. Also, I wouldn’t worry too much about size when looking for schools, just go with where you can see yourself living for four years. Whether you go to a large school, or a small school, you will without a doubt be able to find “your people;” however, you may have to leave your comfort zone when looking for them, but that is all part of the learning experience. Hope I helped
So will I be fine?
I am living proof that you can survive being an introvert at a big party school I joined the book club, which is more my style.
join something, and you’ll be fine. my introvert preferred a big school, because he can just be a face in a crowd when he wants. I went to a small LAC and it can be too much like high school — everyone knows your business, and if you choose to decompress by reading alone, or eating alone, everyone wants to know what’s wrong with you. Penn State has a lot going on – join things until you find a couple that fit, and you’ll be fine.
I just finished my first semester at PSU. I’d consider myself an introvert and I would say I’m having the time of my life at Penn State, although I do like to party on the weekends. Definitely get season tickets for the football games: even if you go alone, you’ll still have an amazing time and might make some new friends. I actually met some of my best friends this year while we were watching football.
I wholeheartedly recommend joining at least one club that you’re genuinely interested in since it’s probably the easiest way to make long-lasting friends who will get you out of your shell. You’ll already have a common interest with everyone in the club, and they are all eager to make new friends. I’ve joined a THON organization (If you can find a way to get involved with THON, do it) and multiple clubs related to my major and I’ve had a blast, while making a ton of new friends. In addition, joining clubs will definitely improve your application later on as you apply for internships and jobs.
Another thing you should do is reach out to other people in your major. Again, you’re guaranteed to have at least one thing in common, and it could lead to study groups and friendships down the line, which would help you in multiple ways. This can also apply to people who are just in your classes but are not necessarily the same major.
Penn State is a large school, which can be daunting, but you will eventually find your niche and have a fantastic four years here. We are!