<p>Go ahead... I won't be naming mine Sebastian though.</p>
<p>ever heard of msn</p>
<p>why don't u show us a pic so we can judge you physically? ;-)</p>
<p>and i like guys who are fine in their own skin and personality, in other words, guys who are fine the way they are.</p>
<p>I want my man to be able to smile a lot. Grad, I don't know what to tell you, but please
- Don't over compliment her
- Don't try to make everything funny. If you're not naturally a slapstick laugh, its okay
- And even if you are funny, that doesn't mean the girls will like you</p>
<p>I'm a guy but i thought I could contribute to this thread anyways. Personally, I think that girls nit-pick only when they DONT like you. In some sense, it's the same with girls and guys. You can look at a girl and say, "oh they have to be like this and this and this," but if you have chemistry with a girl, it really doesn't matter if she fits your preferences. I've never seen myself attracted to a girl and said "oh, but she's over the perfect height of 5'4", so I'm not going to pursue it." You just go with it. Same with girls, if they feel a connection, then everything else goes out the window.</p>
<p>So how do you make a connection? Just be yourself and it'll come. You just need for them to see who you are and to be proud of who you are, and everything else falls in place. Girls claim they don't like *******s or players, but guess what? They still get girls because most of the time, they are confident and they don't put on an act. </p>
<p>Another piece of advice is to go out and get rejected. Get rejected a hundred times. Just get used to it because it happens to everyone and being able to deal with it makes approaching women that much easier. </p>
<p>Of course, I've been on a dryspell all summer, so it might not be a great idea to get advice from me. :-/</p>
<p>i agree with iv4me.</p>
<p>It's not about satisfying a set of criteria. If u have one thing that draws the girl in, then everything else tends to fall into place, because she'll begin to idealize u.</p>
<p>There are a few things he has to have, but i'm pretty flexible
1. He can't take life too seriously and he has to laugh a lot. People who are serious too much scare me away
2. You have to be serious sometimes though. A nice balance between the two
3.Outgoing. I can be shy at first, but I like people who are really extroverted</p>
<p>That's it. I don't think I'm being too picky.</p>
<p>I love how girls make all of these different lists about what they want in their dream guy, and it never ends up mattering because they all end up going out with a jerk that breaks their heart eventually anyway. Then, they complain about what a jerk the guy was and they get together with another jerk because they are feeling vulnerable at that time. Finally, Jerk #1 comes back and begs for their forgiveness so they accept in hopes of reforming him. So by the end of all this, they are confused because they are sleeping wth two different guys and complain about what ass***** guys are. Thius cycle continues over and over again unfortunately(or fortunately for headstrong guys).</p>
<p>Ahh the teenage parody...;)</p>
<p>just be nice, sweet, dress well, and keep a good hygiene. then approach them in a nonconfrontational way.</p>
<p>It doesn't matter :\ If a girl is going to like you she is going to grow to like everything about you even if she didn't before.</p>
<p>exactly .</p>
<p>talks or not? talks more than average, but mainly just be able to have a good conversation without awkward pauses</p>
<p>funny or quiet? definitely have a sense of humor that I share</p>
<p>smart or stupid? smart, I've never been attracted to a guy that wasn't intelligent</p>
<p>popular or not? not an arrogant football playing jerk, just tall (I'm 5'8'') and someone who doesn't make me cringe in disgust at their grossness</p>
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<em>sigh</em></p>
<p>I hate how people stereotype. :(</p>