<p>Hey I am a typical Californian guy. I surf, listen to 60s and 70s music, relax, etc... I wanted to know (if you like guys like that) what you really look for. Intelligence? Personality? Tough Guy? Nice? Quiet? Loud? Rich? ETC...</p>
<p>Thanks</p>
<p>i'm not sure about california girls, i live in NJ. but hm.. don't change your personality for girls. that being said, i like intelligent guys, but not book smart.. and not in your face intelligence. just guys that know how to articulate well and can have intelligent conversations. i do like nice guys.. im big on politeness.. holding doors is big w/ me for some reason. but not too nice.. basically i want someone who seems tough but is really really nice to me. i'm usually on the quieter side, so i tend to like outgoing guys that can get me to open up more at first. obnoxiousness is never attractive though. i dont really care about money at this point, honestly i would never marry a poor guy just bc i cant imagine being happy with that kind of lifestyle, but that's just me. im a bit old-fashioned so although i dont really care at this point whether you're rich or not, im used to guys paying for basically everything on dates so i hate to say it but you would be less attractive if you didnt.. that might just be an east coast thing though? i dont know</p>
<p>Guys like you don't like me because I'm not a hippie. Even if I like you.</p>
<p>Anyways what I like: Someone who won't change for me, but still accepts me, even if we are a little different, but still very alike in so many ways. I like someone who doesn't try to act all tough just because they have a girl around them now. That's about it.</p>
<p>ummm... im not a girl but i really dont recommend asking cc girls for girl advice .....</p>
<p>^^^^ what's wrong with asking us? Although we are smart and ambitious, it doesn't mean that we don't have a great social life. </p>
<p>ANYWAYS...I love sweet guys. I really love music (but I can't play anything but my iPod) so if they can sing or play the guitar...excellent. But it is all about being funny, outgoing, and being totally sweet.</p>
<p>to the_who:</p>
<p>y dont u go 2 some dating website? i dont see wut any of this has to do with college, academics, etc. Like geez!</p>
<p>i like muscley guys lol</p>
<p>Politeness THATS a big one... also I want him to be as nice to me as to other people because if he acts one way to everyone else than another way to me then chances are he's putting up a front and isn't showing me the true him. Call me shallow, but attractiveness scores at least 15 points out of 100. I mean, you aren't going to walk up to someone and be like, I really like your morals and good judgement. Seriously. Non-smoker, is also good. A good guy, not the bad boy lets ditch school etc etc...Mystery is a plus too. NO COCKINESS!!!</p>
<p>Basically be yourself and someone will be SO attracted to you because If you act like someone else then chances are that someone else already has someone or is into something completely different..(did that make sense? Hold on, what are we talking about here?) :)</p>
<p>I LOVE old school music. As well ,same interests, or appealling new ones adds about 30 more points! Smartness too is AWESOME but I guess everyone here has a pinch of genius in them.</p>
<p>aw man terry that hurt like right here, in my heart. you think we're not cool enough or something? dude we're cooler than any girl you've met in real life, trust me.. cuz we got personality and the intelligence</p>
<p>oh really..sarah..im sure you are so much cooler..</p>
<p>yeah you betta believe it smurfY</p>
<p>you sound like my boyfriend</p>
<p>smurfy? you cant call me that. c''mon, you live in oklahoma...how sad is that..</p>
<p>i'll call you smurfy if i want to :)
wth?.. oklahoma . . since when did "VA" stand for oklahoma .. i've never even been to oklahoma .. what are you smokin kid</p>
<p>That did hurt Terry. Gawd. We give awesome advice. </p>
<p>I like guys with long hair. :)</p>
<p>Personality wise: They have to be intelligent enough to hold up a conversation, funny, and a gentleman. I hate it when guys act one way with you and completely opposite when they're with their friends...they always act a little differently, but not a complete 180. They have to like to have fun and not always be serious - but there are times where I do like it when a guy is serious and I can talk to. A lot of what it boils down to, I guess, is I don't like just having a boyfriend - I want him to be my friend too. Which might not make sense, I don't know.</p>
<p>I'm an Arizona girl... kids here act like our state is California's baby brother</p>
<p>things that I reeeeeally like:</p>
<p>personality - talkative, amusing
the ability to dress well, not adverse to hygiene
creative talent (writing, drawing, music, cooking, being everyone's friend, anything that positively affects others)</p>
<p>oh, and I have a bit of a bias for guys with glasses :)</p>
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i've never even been to oklahoma ..
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keep it that way. you're really not missing anything. your backyard is probably more exciting.</p>
<p>uh, i'm a guy, but i always got the impression that the most attractive thing you can do is just act like yourself. i know it sounds cliche, but it's true. specifically, don't go around chasing and obsessing over girls, or changing yourself to meet what some girl wants. it only makes you look desperate and really really lame.</p>
<p>yea these girls are giving u useless advice ... i agree with jimmyeatworld... basically just be yourself, dress nice and clean, and whatever you do dont let a girl know that you like her(romantically) until you know that she likes you... if you let her know that you like her first she will take advantage of you and you will become a friend(its awful this happened to me once and i learned my lesson) also always tell the truth unless a lie is completely unavoidable, the smallest lie will get your heart broken(experience also)..... which brings me to the next point, dont fall in love!!!</p>