<p>Darby, fwiw, everyone I know who’s gone to Ithaca or had a child go there has been killed in extras and add-on fees above the stated COA. Apparently, they like to nickel and dime people constantly. This would drive me mad. </p>
<p>I consider it a bit of a blessing now that my D’s getting some unrealistic FA offers - it’s helped her narrow the field considerably. I can’t help but think that saying “NO” to some big debt dreams now will eventually help them say “YES” to their bigger, future dreams!</p>