Our combined income is roughly $200K (with typical assets), late forties, and we have a high-school junior S whose college selection/application process is on the horizon. We are fully informed regarding net price calculators, CSS/FAFSA, merit aid, national merit scholarships, loans, etc etc. Most NPCs indicate we will receive little/no need-based aid at private colleges (price tags now 60K+/year)
Technically, we could “afford” to full-pay, but very hesitant (for many/obvious reasons as discussed throughout CC), and we are fully aware there are lots of other avenues (state schools, merit, etc etc) I can understand that for a family making $600K (this is a random figure that’s significantly higher than our $200K), the decision to go full-pay might not be hard. I realize this is somewhat a personal decision of what one is looking for, comfort zone, etc
I would be interested in hearing from parents whose financial situation is similar to ours (let’s say income $300K or less) who HAVE or ARE actually doing/done full-pay for their child. (I would sort of like to know “would we be only ones??”)
Specifically, I would like to know
- What is/was your income?
- What geographic location do you live in?
- What is your retirement funding situation?
- Were there any special circumstances that allowed you to decide to go full-pay at $50K+/year? (you are expecting a large inheritance down the line, a rich uncle partly funded, etc)
- Any specific regrets/advice?
Let me put our situation
- Combined income $200K (married couple)
- Central NJ (high cost-of-livng)
- We have about $800K in our 401K/IRAs (we are in late forties). No pension.
- No special circumstances
- Hoping to get some feedback from others who are full-pay with similar financial situation