<p>I must say that I have been quite surprised by the fervor and magnitude of the response to my post. I think a few commenters, achat comes to mind, got at what I was trying to say quite eloquently (and probably did a better job than even I could).</p>
<p>I agree that to surmise that there is an elect, some genius that deserves to be admitted to these schools, that is somehow intellectually superior, is patently FALSE. But thats not what I claimed.</p>
<p>Based on these friends experiences (and their backgrounds, which from my previous experience with CC would suggest that they would be crapshoots), I had to conclude that something other than a relatively arbitrary, or even variable, process was at work. They got into these schools with surprising regularity. I confirmed this when I went to several of these schoools admit weekends and saw that many other students had been just as heavily cross-admitted. Many were not athletes, URMs, legacies etc
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<p>I postulated a hypothesis as to what might explain this phenomenon. It seemed that thhe big differentiator was what I perceived as a very intangible quality, intellectuality, as I called it a thirst for knowledge, a jocular quality, playfulness, questioning.</p>
<p>I made a number of important disclaimiers:
the college application serves as an (admittedly imperfect) tool to decipher [this]
plenty of people who do possess this quality don't necessarily get accepted to Harvard or Stanford. It is no binary whose presence is always openly and readily discerned (as an aside, perhaps one of my most intellectual peers is a student at Georgetown. Do I feel differently about him because he isnt at Yale? NO!)
This is not the only quality top schools look for
I guess what Im trying to tell you is that this is a tentative explanation that would suggest why some candidates do better than others at getting into HYPS. Its not an end-all, be-all theory.</p>
<p>A number of posters made quite legit critiques, including DoneMom, yulsie, NorthStarMom.</p>
<p>Now, there were some SERIOUS problems with what I wrote. Someguyordudes mockery of my text was HILARIOUS, and correct. I have a somewhat pompous style, but give me a break Im not even in college! Besides, perhaps I employ latin phrases or long words because I find them more accurate, because they add wit and verve to my writing. To attack me for using them seems like a mild form of Pol Pots regime, which singled you out as an intellectual (to be executed) if you wore glasses. An F. Scott Fitzgerald quote comes to mind, but I fear that noting it here would only bring more castigation.</p>
<p>Frankly, I can take criticism of my writing style, but I am DEEPLY HURT when people assume that I am arrogant or feel self-superior because of what I wrote. I intentionally omitted characterizing myself beyond some simple background facts to avoid this. NOWHERE do I say that I possess this spark.</p>
<p>I get the feeling that some of this anger has to do with a feeling of moral desert thats attached to getting into a top schools. When I mentioned that this goes against some peoples sense of an egalitarian meritocracy, I was speaking of an American kind of merit. We like to believe that with hard work and dedication, passion, anyone can reach any level of achievement. Furthermore, we see elite schools as a kind of top achievement, and a reward for working hard in high school.
I find this odd. Few in Europe would assume that people at top schools are there because theyre better people, or that you deserve to go to a top school. Rather, getting in is seen as a function of some kind of smarts (Im not going to pick apart intellegent vs intellectual here). This is a healthy attitude. Universities are communities of learning, and their task is first and foremost to find people who will contribute to that learning. That means that some people will have it an others wont.
But why do some among us have to attach such moral significance to such discrimination? After all, going to HYPS doesnt make you a better person. I never said it does. I never said these friends of mine are good people, or that Im somehow better for having gotten into school X. </p>
<p>Does it then make me arrogant and pompous to postulate, that you can attribute unto different people different levels of intellectuality, and that top schools might consider such a measure?</p>
<p>Finally, let me address some particular criticisms.
I have nothing against PENN or schools other than HYPS. For example, both of my parents have degrees from Penn, it is an amazing school. I just didnt list it because among most of my friends, and many other cross-admits I met, Penn was not one of the schools they were deciding between, even when they had been admitted.</p>
<p>Additionally, as to how I know these people: I know none of the 20 I mentioned from IMing. If the web did not exist, I would still know all of them. Small sample size? Yes. But I also know plenty of people who werent admitted to HYP. Im also extrapolating from them. And Im also extrapolating from all the people I met at YPS (no, I didnt get into Harvard. Boo-hoo, big deal).</p>
<p>Finally, I think someone asked why I was posting at 3am. Im in a non-US timezone. No, I not on CC at 3am by my time.</p>
<p>I guess I may have misrepresented myself, but I consider myself a nice and generally down to earth guy who was just trying to say something a little controversial. If anyone wants to email me or send me a PM, please go ahead. Id be happy to talk to you, and maybe convince you Im not an aloof ****-head after all.</p>