Since your love is theater, look at schools with strong theater programs. Vassar is a reach but your 32 ACT is very good. Schools like Vassar will look beyond your stats and they love people who take the most rigorous courses offered and are passionate. Also check out Bard - they do a ton of writing there even in the science majors and theater is strong also. Hamilton is another great choice and maybe check out Brandeis and Tufts.