Being a female doesn’t help at most LACs. Lafayette might be a good match, with a 30% acceptance rate. It’s one of the few Lacs where more men than women apply. And of course, if you want to improve your chances, apply ED. A college like Bates admits a lot of kids ED, but RD acceptance rate for women is about 13%.
Have a look at the CDS for the colleges you are interested in. You will find that many on your list have more female than male applicants. And the numbers are significant. Brown has nearly 25% more female than male applicants. Bowdoin had nearly 800 more women than men apply. So all the more reason why you need some match and safety schools. I would be extremely leery of assuming that Tulane is a safety if you express interest. 16,000 women applied compared to 10,000 men. But you said you have U Conn as a safety, so as long as you will be happy with that, that is at least one safety on your list.
I see someone suggested Tufts, with its 14% acceptance rate. 11000 women applied versus 8000, so that is definitely a high reach school. Not trying to dissuade you from anywhere, it is important though to see the numbers so that you can make informed choices.