<p>I just completed my first semester at F&M, and, honestly, I love it!</p>
<p>First off, while F&M can come off as “cliquesh” sometimes, it all depends on what sort of people you hang out with. I think you’ll get cliques almost anywhere you go, especially at most LACs, but if you’re not into that and you’re able to ignore it and find a good core group of varied friends then it shouldn’t really bother you. Personally, my group of friends is pretty varied. We vary in religion and economic status. We have very varied academic and extracurricular interests. We even slightly vary in the parts of the country we are from, though most of us are from Pennsylvania or New Jersey. So basically, if cliques are your thing, then you’ll certainly find that. But it can easily be ignored, too. It’s not that big of a deal.</p>
<p>I personally am not a big partier. Don’t get me wrong, I love going out every now and then to blow off some steam, but lots of times I’d rather just stay in with my friends or my boyfriend. I am also part of the editing board for the newspaper, which meets for 6-8 hours every Sunday, so my Saturday nights can’t get too out of control. No one really looks down on me for this, especially because my friends are the same way. They have volunteer commitments, sports practices, games, rehearsals, concerts, tutoring sessions and other activities, as well. Again, it all comes down to the type of people you hang out with. If you hang out with big partiers, then it might be harder to get them to understand your reasons for not going out. But with the right group of friends, it’s no big deal. I was worried about this as well when considering F&M, but for me it really hasn’t been something to worry about. I do my own thing and that doesn’t seem to bother anyone.</p>
<p>I would say, in regards to religion, they are pretty diverse. As for politics, I can’t really say. I am a bio major. I absolutely refuse to talk politics. So I haven’t really experienced diversity or lack thereof concerning politics. Sorry. </p>
<p>As for what kind of student would fit best at F&M, I would say someone who is passionate and very hardworking. People say F&M is a “work hard, play hard” school. That’s definitely true. F&M students work incredibly hard, are very involved, and know how to blow off steam (whether that is partying and drinking or going out on the town or just being crazy with friends or giving their all in a club/sport/activity).</p>
<p>Sorry this is so long! If you have any other questions, post them or message me. I’d love to help in any way I can. Good luck!!</p>