<p>Hi everyone.</p>
<p>I just finished my second year at UCSD, and in general I’m not
feeling very connected to anything, and thinking of transferring.
I feel I don’t have many close friends, people who I click with.</p>
<p>When I applied to colleges I did get in to Berkeley and I went to
UCSD. Now I find myself wondering if I could be having a better
time at Berkeley. I play trumpet, and UCSD has a fun Pepband, but
it is small and I feel I don’t have anyone musically to look up
to. The big Cal Band looks like a lot of fun, with lots of other
dedicated musicians who have fun, and a band hall to boot.
I miss high school marching band and that whole scene.</p>
<p>I am also not feeling a strong connection with the students. Too
often I’m the person people go to for help, and I feel I know
almost no one in Computer Science, my major. I feel I’m not
very stimulated by the students around me, and that I would be
at Berkeley. I don’t want to badmouth UCSD, but there are other
aspects I don’t like as well.</p>
<p>But San Diego has good things, too. I’ve got Regents’ Scholarship
there, and I’m much more familiar with the curriculum. I’ve been
doing very well in classes, and I feel it would be easier to get
an internship or research position at UCSD, which is good for
grad school, which is what I’m aiming for.</p>
<p>Transfer would also involve another year of school, because if I
transferred, I would spend the next year at Berkeley City College,
a community college, in order to join the band, and transfer the
following year.</p>
<p>One of my friends said that maybe it’s a “grass is greener”
scenario. That maybe if I tried just a little harder and saw what
I had at UCSD I’d be happy. But I’m not sure. Wherever I decide to
do I want to be excited about it. I feel I could be better
off socially at Berkeley but I would be better off academically
at UCSD. I’m unsure about leaving what I have at San Diego to try
my luck at Berkeley, but I’m not very thrilled about going to
San Diego.</p>
<p>Any thoughts? Ideas? Advice? Thanks for anything!</p>