<p>I grew up in Lancaster and all of my immediate family still resides there...so I can give you a lot of information!</p>
<p>As for where to stay...I'd avoid staying in the actual city of Lancaster and go to the outskirts to stay. I'm not completely well-versed on places to stay (since I've never had to find a hotel, of course), but I do know the owner of the Sleep Inn off of Route 30 in Mountville, Pa. The owner is a good guy and makes sure everything is up to date and clean. Whenever family from out of town come to Lancaster to visit, they end up staying here. When looking at their website, they have a indoor pool plus there is a miniture golf course and ice cream shop on premise (very handy for the summer!).</p>
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<p>As for places to eat...</p>
<p>Make sure you try some local flavor, such as Krieder's Family Resturant (numerous locations in Lancaster) and Isaac's Deli (one of my favorites, again numerous locations!). Also, my favorite Mexican food place (owned by a Peruvian..so has authentic Peruvian cuisine) is El Serrano (located on Columbia Ave.). Also, if you like coffee shops, Auntie Anne is from Lancaster and there are a few Auntie Anne's coffee shops that offer great food and great drinks (non-alcoholic). Aunite Anne's daughter also owns a coffee shop called The Coffee Company in Lancaster (I believe it is on Oregon Pike) which I think has better food (esp. dessert) than the Auntie Anne coffee shops and exotic coffees that my family really enjoys!</p>
<p>If you are into great beer, definately check out Bube's brewery in Mt. Joy! Bube's brewery is actually the oldest brewery in the United States (most think it's Yungling...but Bube's is older, the difference is it closed during prohibition) and has great food, including an open-faced crab sandwich to die for! Lancaster Brewing company in downtown Lancaster also has great beer (I've never had the food though...).</p>
<p>Near F&M's campus, there is a good but kinda pricey steak place called Doc Holliday's. I went there once for a birthday dinner, it's a good place probably for lunch, but I'd try to avoid it for dinner (like I said, it's pricey).</p>
<p>As for places to see...</p>
<p>Downtown Lancaster is home to the country's oldest farmers market. I didn't get the opportunity to visit until I was in college, but it is quaint and there are a lot of specialty shops in the vicinity of the farmers market. </p>
<p>If you can swing it, I'd also try to get to Hershey. Hershey is only about 20-25 minutes from Lancaster and hosts not only Hershey Park, but also hosts Hershey's Chocolate World (free! including free sample of chocolate at the end of the 'tour'). </p>
<p>Also, there are other farmers markets in Lancaster County that are interesting to see including Roots (open only on Tuesdays) and Green Dragon (only open on Fridays). </p>
<p>Additionally, since I see you are from NY, you'll be very happy to know that there is no sales tax on clothing in PA! Plus there are numerous outlet malls in Lancaster off of Route 30. There is a Tanger Outlet Center and a Millstream Outlet Center on Route 30 that is very popular with the locals and the out of state crowd if you want to get some tax-free shopping done while you are in Lancaster.</p>
<p>Stay away from Amish toursit traps such as the Amish Farm. </p>
<p>PM me if you want anymore additional info. I wrote this on the fly, and there is bound to be things I left out. :D</p>