Turn down an interview?

Parents Forum
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<p>I hail all the parents in this forum =P... I need some advice... i just got an email from an alumnus that he is conducting an interview at barnes and nobles for Duke University (i'm assuming he sent it to a couple of people because he said there will be 15-30 minute slots from 9-4 depending on how many people want one). he says..</p>

<p>"The interview will be informal and relaxed and you will be able to ask questions about Duke. Interviews will last between 15 and 30 minutes depending on response to this email.</p>

<p>The interview is not mandatory, but is a good opportunity for you to learn about Duke and for Duke to learn about you. </p>

<p>If you would like an interview: (i) respond to this email, (ii) tell me what time (or timeframe) is good for you on December 30. If you don’t want an interview, please just respond to this email and let me know you don’t need an interview at this time. I will try to accommodate everyone that responds."</p>

<p>I just got accepted into Uchicago and they sent me a really good financial aid estimate.. so i'm more likely than not going to attend uchicago.. my parents and I are even thinking about withdrawing the regular decision applications.. (including duke)</p>

<p>anyway... is it okay if i decline the invite? from the email.. it seems as though it doesn't really matter.. but idk.. thoughts? Moreover, my family is planning a vacation so.. I might not even be in town...</p>

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<p>Don’t burn bridges. Just write back and say you are terribly sorry, but you are already committed for December 30 and can’t make it. It does sound like it’s mostly an informational interview.</p>

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<p>I agree with mathmom–since interviews are only done on one day, there are probably others who have other plans.</p>

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<p>A politely worded “thanks, but…” reply is fine. These interviews are just as much recruiting tools for the school as they are a chance for applicants to share about themselves. They’re offered to give students a personal, positive experience with “Duke” via this alum. So don’t feel as if you’re obligated to attend.</p>