<p>OP,
How much to do you love playing your sport? What do you think the chances are that you might want to quit when you get to college?</p>
<p>If you go to Cal or UVA on full-scholarship (does it include r+b?), or Stanford on partial, and decide during/after freshman year that D1 collegiate athletics is too demanding or no longer interests you, you will be stuck paying $50K for Stanford OOS ($50K?) for UVA and $25K for Cal. Obviously, Cal would be the best choice if you have doubts about continuing to play.</p>