We most certainly don’t qualify for need-based aid - knew that even before applying. But Carleton seems to far removed from the main metros along the East Coast for me to really consider it. The other two options are more attractive to us.
I’m hoping the responses to my original post would shed some light on the relative merits/strengths of the schools and the programs our D is keen on pursuing instead of wondering about what my goal as a parent is, or what our child is looking for in College. Thank you!