<p>The really interesting thing to know would be what effect the character of a college actually has on the students who go there. I tend to think not very much. In my own case, I am confident that I would be more or less the same person if I had gone to Harvard or Princeton rather than Yale, and I would have had pretty much the same career. (I would be married to someone else, but it would probably be someone very similar to the person I’m married to.) If I had gone to a small liberal arts college – something I never seriously considered – I almost certainly would have spent some time in an English PhD program (the reason I didn’t had a lot to do with being pretty intimately familiar with some of the unpleasant aspects of life in elite graduate programs and among successful faculty). But I tend to think that would have ultimately been a detour, as it was for many of my contemporaries.</p>
<p>I don’t think the University of Chicago had a major impact on my first child there. She is a Chicago type, except for being much more a hipster than a quirky nerd, but she would have found kindred souls and a good education at any university of decent quality. She would never have turned into Charlotte Simmons, nor was she likely to become, I don’t know, Elena Kagan or Hillary Rodham. </p>
<p>Recently, however, I have been contemplating the notion that Chicago HAS had a significant effect on how my second child leads his life. He is a much more standard-issue Ivy type – strong all around in everything in high school (at least until the second semester of Physics C), something of a joiner and a leader, interested in and engaged by the real world, but no clear idea of exactly how he fits into it. I have reported often how one of his reasons for choosing Chicago was that he liked to party, and he was a little afraid of falling into a pit (as had happened to several people he knew when they went to college). He felt he had seen what the pit looked like at Chicago – specifically his sister and her friends – and, as he put it, “it’s a pretty shallow pit”.</p>
<p>Something I realized over Christmas is that he has essentially abandoned the “party” lifestyle. Not as a matter of conscious decision at all, and certainly not out of unrelenting focus on his studies. He is – true to type – deeply engaged in various extra-curricular activities. He makes periodic excursions to the more exciting parts of Chicago. He has had a series of girlfriends, some of whom seem to be on repeat. (In his world, breaking up does not seem to entail spending a lot less time together.) But one way or another, his life has gotten too full to spend much of it on social drinking or drug use. Part of that IS the academics – he is constantly excited by his classes, and for all his other activities, if a professor suggests that he read three books not on the syllabus to get a handle on a question he asks, he reads the three books. But another part is that he is solidly embedded in a community that just isn’t all that party-centric. People have fun, they are enjoying themselves (certainly the “girlfriends” part involves the kind of fun that 20-year-olds who are attracted to one another often have), but his actual behaviors are meaningfully different than those of similar kids at other colleges.</p>
<p>I doubt this will have any kind of profound long-term effect, and I think lots of people tone down their partying by the middle of their third year in college. In my case, “toning down” meant consciously limiting my recreational alcohol and drug abuse to only two or three times a week, which made me sort of a moderate Puritan compared to my classmates. For my son, at his university, and without anything like a Great Awakening, that all seems to be approaching a limit of zero.</p>
<p>Your mileage may vary, of course. Nothing remotely similar happened with his sister, whose “Latkes and Vodka” Hanukkah parties were apparently very popular in certain circles. But, still, I have a sneaking suspicion that Chicago has actually made a difference in how half of my children spend their time in college.</p>