UC Berkeley or Carnegie Mellon for Physics+Engineering

I don’t think you will be qualified for in-state tuition during the first year (and possibly not the second year) when your parents move to California.

http://ucop.edu/residency/10-things-undergrads.html

Besides, housing cost in California is expensive. Can your family afford?

If CMU cost of attendance for you is $30,000 then that amount would be the same when you become in-state resident in CA.

Take CMU.