<p>I think transfer options should be kept at a last resort thing. It’s a gamble. On one hand, transferring to another school could open new doors, but don’t you agree on how college should be a 4 year experience, a place where you can grow, mature, foster, and most importantly, develop long lasting relationships that may very well last a lifetime. I remember reading up on a CC who was on the Harvard wait list last year, and he commented on how he ended up choosing UCLA over Columbia. He was in the same situation as you: wait-listed at an Ivy and fell in love with a UC. Then, by a stroke of luck, Columbia emailed him that he was off the waiting list, but by that time he realized that the waiting list process had shown him that college is what you make of it. He ended up choosing UCLA, and couldn’t be more happier.</p>
<p>I guess the same can apply to you. Yes, I understand the enormous pressure that comes because, hey, Princeton is a pretty renowned school and it’s an “Ivy.” Many people focus on the fact that it has a brand name, but they also should take into account that Princeton does offer some great programs. The same goes with Berkeley as well. Especially in the College of Chemistry, Berkeley has a pretty good program because the class sizes are small, depending on your field of chemistry (chem, chemical biology, or chemical engineering). Yes, it’s a public school and maybe the resources are harder to obtain since there’s so many students there, but that would also teach us how to become independent in the real world. We have to fight and earn our place so that we can strive to be the best we can be. </p>
<p>Choosing a public school over an Ivy League isn’t the end of the world. (Truly, as hard as it may sounds). I had a friend who ended up declining every Ivy she got into (which was all of them) to go to a UC (and money wasn’t an issue). Her UC school gave her so many research opportunities because she decided to take the initiative to go look for them. And now, at the end of her undergraduate experience, she’s getting a lot of good graduate offers from Harvard, MIT, Stanford, etc. </p>
<p>Again, college is what you make of it. Whether you end up choosing Princeton or Berkeley, you sound like a student who’s motivated and determined to succeed. And earlier in your post, you mentioned how you wanted to stay close to home. That’s fine, I mean, perhaps Berkeley would be a good learning experience for you since you would be independent but if anything happens, you are close to home. Then, when you hit 22, you’ll be ready to take the opportunities that lie beyond California, and that, truly, will be a magical feeling.</p>
<p>I’m also an incoming freshman in the College of Chemistry @ Cal.</p>
<p>My advice: Visit Princeton if you can (I don’t know how much time you’re getting to decide). Whichever feels more comfortable to you, choose it, and go with it. (I know when I step foot on a college campus, I can get an immediate sense of the “vibe,” that will either tell me to go there or not.)</p>
<p>Again, congratulations on making off the waiting list! I wish you the best of luck!</p>