<p>cardinalfocused,
i skimmed through the thread you gave me (and don't want to go over it again in detail because i'm really not feeling well, but i will later) and everyone is entitled to their opinion. here is some of my personal exp</p>
<p>i like the professors, and yes there are some really crappy ones, like this biopsych prof i had. but there are those EVERYWHERE. </p>
<p>as a transfer, i felt pretty lonely my first semester out here. then again, i'm the kind of person who doesnt really open up right away, so it takes a little longer for me to make friends, so i'd feel like that anywhere. this semester i was selected to be a peer counselor, so i'm making an effort to get to know ppl through that, since we all have at least one thing in common and it is a smaller group than one of my upper division classes. so far, the people i have met up with outside of class, i find i dont entirely click with, but if i keep making and effort, i will find at least one very very good friend here. and if not, at least i have fun in the process =) oh, and i met my current boyfriend in one of my classes last semester and been going out since then. that helps not feel lonely, but i still would like to make good friendships here. yes, it is certainly a challenge like that poster said but if i can find a bf here my first semester, i can find a person(s) who would make a very good friend. </p>
<p>people aren't very smart at cal? what in the hell???? ok, there are some people who are bigtime slackers and i really wonder how they manage to get here, but there are a lot of intelligent ppl here. i can't believe that poster said when ppl ask questions, they ask dumb questions...i don't know what his problem is</p>
<p>yes, they guarantee you only one year for transfers, but i hope the poster knows....there is something called craigslist and Cal rentals where you can search for places to live in that cost way less than the dorms. and that doesnt require befriending anyone</p>
<p>i dont know, sounds like the poster is having a really difficult time transitioning and i can realy sympathize. just finding where you belong in a school of 30,000 students can be really challenging and frustrating, so maybe he's just blowing off some steam.</p>