<p>I’m not sure you’re understanding how selfishness applies here. Selfish is not letting your child go away to school without following them, letting them grow up and have an independent life making use of their own values even when thy are different from yours. It’s not letting them assimilate into the culture they are living in. </p>
<p>There was a recent thread on the parent’s board on this subject, perhaps yo should have your parent’s read it:</p>
<p><a href=“http://talk.collegeconfidential.com/parents-forum/665449-relocating-d-east-coast-does-make-sense.html[/url]”>http://talk.collegeconfidential.com/parents-forum/665449-relocating-d-east-coast-does-make-sense.html</a></p>