<p>In the past few days, my daughter got accepted to her two dream schools, UF and NCF. Honestly, she didn't expect the high class problem of choosing between them because she didn't expect to get accepted to either (She is not a top 10% student but does have excellent SATs and ECs). A week ago, she was deciding between USF and two smaller colleges, Eckerd and FIT. </p>
<p>Honestly, I'm not sure either NCF or UF are right for her. I was leaning toward Eckerd, a small but traditional college. UF seems terribly large, while NCF is very untraditional. However, it seems wrong to turn down such great (and low-priced) schools in favor of one which is both expensive and less selective. Therefore, we are considering the pros and cons of both. </p>
<p>My daughter is very smart (I know that's a mom talking, but really, a lot of adults are stunned by her) with a great natural love for learning for its own sake. She complains about classmates who only care about grades. She is interested in everything. She is also a bit offbeat and doesn't fit in with just anyone. She has deep friendships with other outsiders. All this, I think would make her a good candidate for NCF. From all I can see about the school, she would find others like her. </p>
<p>That said, she has ADD and trouble with organizational skills. This is the real reason she has had trouble with traditional education. If her grade was based upon tests and papers, she would be an A student. She loves classes that are interactive. But she's had trouble with busy work, assignments which require that students learn in a certain way, such as by copying, taking notes, writing sentences with vocabulary words she already knew, etc. (She also complains about students who complete the massive amounts of busywork at her school by cheating, something which seems like a real problem at her school. I gather NCF (and college in general) would have less or none of this type of assignments. However, I worry that her lack of organizational skills would hurt her in a school that was so free. She has done well on projects such as term papers and an internship last summer that requires a final project. And, generally, her teachers KNOW that she has learned the material. She just doesn't get an A because she hasn't handed in some piece of busywork (her grades are almost all Bs, though in challenging classes). Perhaps at NCF, the object IS to learn?</p>
<p>What exactly happens in a semester at NCF? You register for classes and then what?</p>
<p>Also, I've heard a lot about how offbeat the students are. This appeals to us to some extent because my daughter is offbeat, and I'd love her to find someplace where she fits in. That said, I don't actually want her to get WEIRDER. She does need to function in the world. Just how weird is it there?</p>
<p>Sorry so long. Thanks for any thoughts.</p>