<p>Stanfordalum, I certainly had my fun at Harvard as did most of my friends, but I must say, we certainly didn't have the attitude that we better have fun now because we won't later. Most of us chose work we love and actually consider fun! We are successful and live well which we also consider fun. We have families that we offer so much and that's probably the most fun of all. Your outlook is so unusual for a top college peer. Most of us do not see adult life as drudgery, as perhaps the unfortunate do.</p>