Ugh relationship help?

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<p>Here's the deal:</p>

<p>I'm a freshman now and am planning on transferring next year to one of six places: U. South Carolina, Clemson, UGA, FSU, Umass-Amherst, or Flagler College. My girlfriend is a senior now and is going to Clemson. I just got accepted to Clemson, however it's the only school out of the six that doesn't have my specific major ( sports management). So what do i do? Follow her and see what happens ( Clemson does have a Sport and Camp management I could minor in w/ a business degree)? Or do I go to a school with my major and put the relationship second because other than USC and UGA, it would be difficult to see her often. Thoughts and ideas pleassssse.</p>

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<p>You'll meet hotter girls once you go to a sorority party anyway.</p>

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<p>^ wow....you're such a dog.</p>

<p>Anyways, to answer the OP: go to the college you like for the sake of the college, not for the sake of your gf. No judgement on your relationship, but it probably won't last for 3-4yrs.</p>

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<p>Alright that's what i thought</p>

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<p>I'm not a "dog," I'm a realist.</p>

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<p>Don't go to the same as your girlfriend. Go to the school that you want to go to and has your major.</p>

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<p>Is there an option for leave the girl and take the business major w/ a minor in Sports Management? Cause that would seriously be the best way to go.</p>

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<p>At Clemson? Or just in general because i mean yeah it's always an option.</p>

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<p>Following your girlfriend/significant other is probably one of the dumbest mistakes kids make when choosing a school.</p>

<p>Let go of the respective leashes and do your own thing. It'll give your relationship some test of character to see if it can sustain the long run.</p>

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<p>Well I meant if it was an option that you considered. You should look into doing that.</p>

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<p>Oh well yes I have, especially in this economy....</p>

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<p>
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I'm not a "dog," I'm a realist.

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that sucks, cuz dogs are cute</p>

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<p>Nikeshox04, have you talked to your girlfriend about this? Even though your final judgement is what matters, she may be able to offer some good input. Is she willing to be in a long distance relationship? I'm not saying that's the best option (goodness knows how difficult long distance relationships can be), but it could be considered.</p>

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<p>Well the interesting thing is that we already are long distance because I'm in college in VA and she's in NC. We've been dating for 6 months, all of it has been long-distance, so we're used to it, but I don't know if we want to continue for all of the college years. That's why Clemson is interesting because we've never really had to chance to see each other more than a few days at a time. Ha, it's kinda complicated.</p>

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<p>lol, mcb, I can be your dog if you really want me to :p</p>

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<p>^ creepy haha</p>

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<p>^ lol yup. I realized that after I wrote it</p>