<p>roderick,</p>
<p>I was not in a frat, nor did I feel marginalized. UIUC has the reputation for having a lot of people in frats because it does. That list you provided only has a few “major” schools on it that are above that 22%, the rest are all small schools from really small, random places. You would imagine that at small, isolated schools, the frat scene would be huge because there isn’t much else to do. UIUC does have a large Greek life and a very vocal one. Still, I had no problem making friends without going Greek.</p>
<p>Balthezar summed it up pretty well when he/she said that UIUC is like any other big school in that it has plenty of support services available, you just have to solicit their help instead of them coming to you by default. Personally, I am a little alarmed by your line about “hand holding.” I am adamantly against the concept of hand holding in college. I would think twice about any university that was renowned for holding the hand of all of the students and gently guiding them through their degree, as it likely will not be very good at preparing them for the real world. College is one big learning experience, one of the most important of which is learning that sometimes, you have to be responsible and proactive about things because no one is going to hold your hand.</p>
<p>Yes, a lot of partying goes on at UIUC. That is college. You will not find a college, especially one the size of UIUC, where partying isn’t a major part of college life. Engineers do tend to party less out of necessity (or flunk out of engineering in order to continue their partying ways), but there are still plenty who do their fair share of partying and are successful with it. Again, one of the great learning experiences of college is finally being free of your parents reins, and many, if not most students, experiment with alcohol to at least some degree, since for many of them it was that forbidden fruit that everyone did back home but they weren’t allowed to do. Many people do it, learn their limits, learn that they need to not let it get out of control, and carry on with productive lives. It is only a small percentage who start doing it and just don’t stop. Chances are, when someone goes off to college, unless they try incredibly hard to not drink at all, they will do at least a small amount of drinking. I don’t mean to scare you, but that is one of the most common ways for kids to exercise their new found freedom, and it doesn’t really matter what school you go to, it will happen. Even my friends who went to school at dry campuses drank. In fact, they might have been worse.</p>
<p>My last suggestion would be to stop going off of lists like the CTCL, Princeton Review, or US News. They really only tell the partial story. As you mentioned, a lot of UIUC professors got low marks from students who just weren’t proactive enough to get that help. UIUC had its share of bad professors, but I had some amazing ones as well. Additionally, those reviews pertain to the college as a whole. I doubt the quality of professors in the English Department is going to effect the collegiate experience of someone in engineering or math or chemistry or something like that. Review sites like that should be taken with a grain of salt. They are one small resource out of many.</p>