<p>I have kind of a general question about...people. I know that when you don't like someone or just get tired of them you kind of revoke contact with them almost permanently. How do you know if when someone is refusing to talk to you, it's for ulterior motives? I'm in an odd situation with a guy (friend of 3 years) concerning something like that, so I don't think this is one of those effeminate "YOU MADE ME MAD AND SO I'M NOT TALKING TO YOU! >:C" situations either.</p>
<p>I hope this isn't a weird question but it probably is 0_0</p>
<p>I don’t know the details, but I would just calmly and politely ask him about it. Ulterior motives and dishonesty are a waste of time and if he can’t see that it might be nice for you two to have a break from each other.</p>