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<p>This has been discussed so many times, I don’t want to start another discussion about it, but I just want to comment on this viewpoint.</p>
<p>The thing is, how hard you worked to get into UNC, or Duke, or anyplace else is all relative. You may imagine that you worked harder, but for students who might not have the stats you did to get in (and, trust me, there will be out-of-state students, too, who won’t have your stats)-- they probably worked equally hard as you did for that acceptance. Perhaps they attended a school that didn’t offer a ton of AP classes; perhaps they just don’t do well on standardized tests. To truly determine that someone else didn’t work as hard as you did in high school would be guesswork, at best-- no matter where you decide to go. There will also be many students (instate and out-of-state) who will have stats equal to or better than your own. They worked hard, too.</p>
<p>No matter where you go to school, though, you’ll never really know how hard someone worked in high school, relative to your own experience. Even your viewpoint about your own hard work is subjective.</p>
<p>I really do believe, too, that you can’t determine how talented or smart or hard-working someone is, simply by looking at their standardized test scores and gpa. I know it sounds like a cliche, but there really is so much more to people than those numbers.</p>
<p>Finally, the issue with in-state students paying less for the same education is somewhat misleading. You should know that even though the stated tuition is less for in-staters, their parents have been paying taxes for years to support the UNC system. Even those folks who don’t have any children have been paying to support the UNC system. In fact, their taxes also help to subsidize all students, even from out-of-state. So the parents of those in-state students really are paying the same, if not more; the payment is just more indirect.</p>
<p>I agree that you can always make a big school smaller, but it’s awfully tough to make a small school seem big.</p>
<p>Hope that helps. All the best in your choices; I feel sure you’ll have plenty of good ones.</p>