@Demosthenes49
On Content Warnings:
The professor doesn’t need wouldn’t go to a council unless they couldn’t reach an agreement. I would hope that case is never even used. PTSD and Rape are probably two big ones where something could ever actually affect anything substantially, and there are cases where those could present a large enough issue I think. I do see your point if a frivolous one were to ever come up, so I would add one more clause: The content in question must not be a significant portion of the course - anything more than a week, let’s say for argument.
On Constructive Spaces:
Okay, let’s expand then. Let’s also include any activities (not discussions) that can also be done outside of a group just as easily given the will and number of people, and if selective, states its reasons for its selectivity publicly. So this would be the female-only study hall, your fitness groups, etc etc. Would you object to any of that?
While my second bit hit on it as well, you never responded to why you would be against an all-female study hall. Could you go into that?
More than that, I challenge the premise: if a dorm is a collection of small, personal, homes, what areas would be public? I agree - every student would have control jointly with their roommates. So what’s left? A few common rooms and halls, which no, would not be spaces. I guess we’re on the same page there. I’m not arguing that the limitations could stretch into rooms that are not theirs. But any rules or guidelines that apply to the insides of rooms would have to be respectful not to violate the freedom of each resident in their own room.
I had some stuff typed up on your specific examples, but I think this is going in too many directions at this point. We’ll have to agree to disagree there for now, but I think the idea that “people believe that a safe space should extend into everywhere” is not something widely held at all, and that is the crux. You see it, I don’t see it. It looks real to you but it’s a strawman to me.
For curiosity, I couldn’t find any violence for UCSB - can you link to that? I think I know what you’re referring to for Mizzou.
Also, the way you list it, three incidents (let’s triple it to be generous for those you don’t know or didn’t list) in over a thousand colleges is not some amazingly dangerous trend - its a tiny fraction. I think that the way it is approached is a lot of the polarization. The core ideas, which so far you have mostly agreed with listed out in my original post, have a much larger effect than these incidents do, which I think is part of the frustration on the pro side.