Picture this, take a walk in someone else’s shoes:
You are a young gay student. You are physically assaulted in a locker room by someone who doesn’t believe in the right to be gay. Then an entire sports team starts bullying you on social media.
You walk into class; the teacher doesn’t say anything, just shows a 45 min Westboro Baptist Church video spewing God hates ****, telling you that the only way God is happy is if you are dead and more hateful rhetoric…
(Does the teacher want you dead, do your fellow students believe this -you sink lower in your seat and start signing Rhianna songs in your head until the end of the video because your fight or flight threat response has kicked in… you wish you would have skipped class or you wish your teacher would have given you a heads up this was going to happen in today’s class )
Nothing more is discussed and class is dismissed with the teachers line “that’s an example of free speech”.
You walk into another class; this teacher wants to debate whether gays should be allowed to adopt children or not. There are no other gay students in the class. The majority of students want to argue against gay adoption saying it is an abomination against God and humanity and harms children. The teacher wants to debate whether people should have the legal right not to have to serve you/hire you/ live with you because by doing so, they think it harms their “godliness” …
(You want to argue back but how do you argue against an invisible person in the sky and a book written 2000 years ago that hates you and says you are the undoing of humanity… How do you find scientific data or rational reason to counter an irrational idea/invisible person that the majority of the nation has bought into… some state legislatures even aren’t able to argue against this reasoning)
Your school brings in a speaker who tells students that while skin color can’t be changed, being gay can be through conversion therapy…
(which you think is fraud and illegal in your state, yet some of the students that beat you up are loving this speaker’s words and shouting what they did to you was for your own good…)
(You want to run, you want to go to one safe place at that school… oh, wait there isn’t any).
So you decide to start one… you ask for trigger warnings and a heads up when hateful rhetoric is going to be debated so you don’t go into freeze mode and so you can mentally prepare yourself and your arguments. You know afterwards it will be good to go to a place that will support and welcome you and other gay students will be there.
You want to go out to a restaurant with your boyfriend holding hands like others do, but you know if you do there is a very high likelihood you will receive offensive verbal comments from people and perhaps beaten up as there have been cases near you of that…
You go off to college
Then one of the most prestigious schools in the USA sends a letter out that gets national attention saying we don’t sanction trigger warnings or safe spaces, we think you need to be subjected to this for the good of our country’s principles. (You pinch yourself that you didn’t choose that school!!!) You pray that other schools don’t jump in and join
You go on CC- people there think you are a special snowflake for wanting to defend trigger warnings and safe spaces and that you are a whacko loser for being worried about your safety and mental health.
BC all of this did happen.