You can take getting merit scholarships from Ivy League schools right off your list. These schools do NOT give merit scholarships at all. They give need based aid only.
They require financial from both of your parents so with $280,000 or so in annual income combined, do you really think you are a student with financial need?
You said your parents were forcing you to attend UF. Now you have FSU in the discussion. Will they let you go there?