<p>I think the first step is to decide whether you want to be lacto-ovo vegetarian or vegan.</p>
<p>Some of the vegans on this forum might disagree with me on this, but here is my opinion:</p>
<p>I have been veg. for 25 years, and vegan for about 5 of those years. I am currently not vegan but leaning towards that direction again. To me, quitting meat was like taking a religious vow: The day I decided to give up meat, it was a FINAL decision. I have never looked back or regretted it. There was no 'occasional sinning.' It just was not an option.</p>
<p>It is a strict NO. Not negotiable. If I am at a party and they serve pepperoni pizza, I cannot and will not just pick the meat off and eat the remaining cheese pizza. To me, that pizza is now tainted. Neither will I ever eat vegetable soup made with chicken broth. I know some people aren't too strict, but on meat I am very strict.</p>
<p>That's the way I feel about meat. </p>
<p>Many vegans feel the same way and extend that feeling to dairy products. Personally, I just don't feel the same way about dairy products. Even when I was vegan, I was not that strict on the vegan part. I didn't buy eggs or cheese but if I was eating out and something had milk or eggs as an ingredient, I didn't mind too much. I didn't order anything cheesy but I let an egg or dairy ingredient slide.</p>
<p>The reason is that even when I was a vegan, milk, cheese and eggs just never grossed me out the way that meat does. To me, avoiding dairy and eggs was more of an ethical and health decision, whereas quitting meat was...very...FINAL. Meat is positively GROSS. I just never felt the same way about eggs and dairy because they are animal-derived products but they're not the actual dead animal. To me, there is a difference.</p>
<p>I do NOT intend this to be a debate between lacto-ovo and veganism. We are all on the same side here! They are just different degrees of commitment. I am just offering some ideas that you might consider, so you can decide where you want to draw YOUR line.</p>
<p>To me, veganism is more 'advanced' than lacto-ovo. It really depends on your level of commitment. If you feel very strongly about going vegan, then go for it! There is plenty of support for you!</p>
<p>If, however, you are a committed to giving up dead animals, but are a bit more wishy-washy on the dairy/eggs, then I would suggest you commit to quitting the meat for now, and ease into being vegan later, when and if you decide that's what you want to do. The reason is that you will be more likely to succeed if you take on something that is less challenging for now. In my opinion, it would be better to continue the dairy and/or eggs for awhile, get comfortable and solid on your new lifestyle, and then IF/when you are ready, take the next step.</p>
<p>In other words, unless you are very solid on your commitment to go vegan, it might be better to make the commitment to quitting meat and succeed at that, than to try to take on too much, get overwhelmed, and backslide.</p>
<p>I think the vegans will agree with me that quitting the meat is the most important thing.</p>
<p>It is VERY easy to go veg. if you include cheese. You can always even get something at most fast-food places. E-Z's has a veggie burger. Subway, Schlotzky's, Taco Cabana, even Taco Bell...all have veggie sandwiches or tacos with cheese. (Taco Cabana has a black bean vegan taco that is great). I don't know what part of the country you're in but my point is that it's really easy to get something cheesy. Cheese pizza is always easy. (Just ask them to use a clean knife when cutting the pizza so you don't find nasty little shreds of meat on it that fell off the knife. I routinely ask them and they don't mind.)</p>
<p>If you decide to go vegan, it is a bit more challenging when eating out, but it can be done. I will leave the vegan suggestions on eating out to the vegans. </p>
<p>If you do dairy and/or eggs, you don't need to worry about nutrients. You will be fine. If you decide to go vegan, then there are really just 2 guidelines to remember:</p>
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<li><p>Make sure you eat something 'hearty' like rice and beans, tofu, tempeh, nuts, seeds, seitan, etc. every day. You don't have to worry about combinations or anything fancy - just don't live on salads and junk food. (You shouldn't eat a lot of junk food anyway, but it's a little more important when you're vegan.) As long as you eat enough to satisfy hunger, and make sure to eat some reasonably healthy foods, you should be fine.</p></li>
<li><p>The only nutrient that tends to be lacking in a vegan diet is vitamin B-12. This is easily remedied by a simple supplement. Just go to any health foods store and get one. The best absorbed B-12 is in liquid or sublingual form. The multi-vitamins and 'B-complex' vitamins also have B-12. (Again, if you do any eggs or dairy, B-12 is not an issue.)</p></li>
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<p>That's it! It really is simple!</p>
<p>Here is a great site for info and support:</p>
<p><a href="http://www.vegsoc.org/index.html%5B/url%5D">http://www.vegsoc.org/index.html</a></p>
<p>There are others too - I'll see if I can dig them out.</p>
<p>Good luck!</p>