<p>So, let me get this straight. I should take my S, who did get 700 on Math SAT’s, take calculus, take and did well at Physics courses at Williams, and find some surgical or therapeutic intervention that makes him want to be an engineer. Hm.</p>
<p>How exactly do you smug STEM parents propose I accomplish this? </p>
<p>Is there interest and aptitude reassignment like gender reassignment? Imagine the moral questions that would raise.</p>
<p>Williams is not an easy school. My kid is very thoughtful. His objections to many engineering and physics jobs is that one works for the government on military projects. He is a pacifist.</p>
<p>I think the scientists who made the A-bomb and the government types who decided to drop it could have used some ethicists or humanities types to give them some perspective on what they were doing.</p>
<p>My nephew has a very, very well-paying job straight out of GA Tech in designing pop-ups that annoy everyone. He failed some classes, but got through in 5 years. He’s a nice kid but very, very self-involved.</p>
<p>My S is altruistic, volunteers, political, brilliant. I guess I should say to him, Sorry son. Money only for STEM.</p>
<p>I have no idea of what he’ll do after he finishes a PhD in Art History. He has already worked at a museum, designed the entire exhibit space for a small, local museum, and is the office manager for a small photo-studio.</p>
<p>He reads Latin well and Ancient Greek a little. I guess I should have told him that was worthless, too. Who cares if we enter another Dark Ages because the only thing anyone knows how to do is math related.</p>
<p>I admire mathematicians. I admire engineers. But those are not the only perspectives we need to run a healthy society. We need many points of view.</p>
<p>BTW: I am a college professor of LITERATURE. Guess I should blush. I <em>do</em> teach the fumbling engineers how to write with respect and patience. I also earn more than many engineers I know and about the same as the brilliant physicists I know at Brookhaven National Labs. (Some are very close friends. They do deign to talk to me.) </p>
<p>I have my summers off, a month off in the winter and only work four days a week. </p>
<p>I guess my parents should have told me that a PhD in English was worthless.</p>
<p>Oops. Actually they did. They told me to become a lawyer. Many of the women I know who did couldn’t balance family and career. I did, and was only completely home for my one year paid sabbatical. Other times I worked half time when kids were babies and full-time since.</p>
<p>Our kids do not want to be engineers, can’t think that way, whatever.</p>
<p>Unless you have a good remedy for their love of art, need to participate in it, your advice isn’t useful.</p>
<p>And really, I don’t want to cut that away.</p>
<p>Guess what? My kid is left-handed. I didn’t turn him into a rightie either.</p>