<p>Hello,</p>
<p>I am new here and was wondering if I could get some advice concerning my daughter who attends UVA. She really hates it there and I am not quite sure why. She tells me she feels left out of everything because she does not drink or party (she is a muslim and very religious person), and is constantly bothered by peer pressure but never gives into it. She feels like she overworks herself to the point where she is only getting two hours of sleep a night and sometimes even none at all... and feels all her hard work does not pay off... because she got a 3.2 this past semester. Now from my point of view I find that to be a very good GPA but she is not used to these grades especially since she got a C+ in chemistry (she has always been a straight A student). She understands that college is different but she just wishes it could be better. She doesn't feel like she can relate to anyone because everyone treats her like a stranger (she does have a few friends). Even her roommate is quite a bother- always taking her things and borrowing her stuff without asking, telling my daughter that her sleeping at 4 Am is a bother to her, but when her roommate stays awake till 6 am it's ok...I mean she feels like her roommate has no respect for her... especially the one time her roommate was laughing at the way my daughter was behaving due to a low blood sugar from her diabetes. That is not something to be laughed about!! She wants to transfer but I disagree. I mean she is at one of the best universities but insists on wanting to stay at home. I believe she should stick it through. I need some advice since this is my first child in college. I just wish she could be happier. Thanks.</p>