<p>I have known this girl through a friend for about a semester, and i am in a fraternity so she comes over pretty much every weekend and we talk and dance together and seems like she definitely likes me. But then when i try to text her or talk to her online she always seems very uninterested which is very frustrating to me cuz i dont know if she really wants to turn it into a relationship...I think about this girl 24/7 its driving me crazy and i never feel this way about girls...the ones im used to usually come to me.....which i know is probably not the good kind...im ready to start dating a good girl but i dont know how to tell what this girl is thinking.....girls please help me out here!</p>
<p>Stop being a wuss and ask her out. If she likes you 'that way,' she'll say yes. If not, she'll say no and you won't be wasting your time hanging out with her on the weekends any more. There is no possible way to know what she is thinking without asking. This isn't a referendum on your personality after all.</p>
<p>I wouldn't say it as harshly as skywriter, but yes, ask her out. Or tell her you have feelings for her, and ask if she returns them. If not, then your pride will be hurt for a little while, and the rejection will sting, but you'll get over it. </p>
<p>And acting uninterested via a text/online is hardly reason to get all paranoid. Some people are just better at talking in person, and have a hard time showing much over the internet.</p>
<p>x3 for just ask her out</p>
<p>dont talk on the internet</p>
<p>Better said than done but I'd say asking her out is the best thing you could do.
Warning though, this girl could be a complete flake and sounds like one..
I hope things work out for you though or that you find someone better.</p>
<p>yeah ask her out, </p>
<p>if she says no, at least you will know.</p>
<p>You're probably uninteresting on the internet, most people are.</p>
<p>change your username..please</p>
<p>I agree with leah377.</p>
<p>she's probably thinking about all your frat bros that she banged</p>
<p>When a girl is interested in a guy she tends to talk with the guy, unless she's trying to play hard to get.</p>
<p>What kind of texts and messages were you sending her?</p>
<p>Um no a milli, you friggin tool, she is not like that and my brothers are not like that. Dont stereotype fraternities unless u know what the hell ur talking about and i know from that comment that you dont.
And i would just text her stuff like, hey whats up or what are u up to just to try to spark a conversation and if usually wouldnt go anywhere....</p>
<p>That's because you have to be interesting. Don't "spark a conversation", instead have some value and importance. Next time you text her it should be a valid reason to speak to someone not just to talk. </p>
<p>Like "We are all going to the _____ game, you need a ride?"</p>
<p>or</p>
<p>"My friends are in ______ and I have to see it, you wanna come?"</p>
<p>this "what are you up to" ******** is just that bulls h i t</p>
<p>You're right frattastic, the girl you're after is a pure virgin princess who doesn't really care for sex much. And none of your frat brothers would ever sleep with this hot girl, if the opportunity ever presented itself. AHAHAHAHA!!!!</p>
<p>This is part of the problem - get in touch with reality, your sexuality, and her sexuality, and be comfortable with it. How do you expect to start a sexual relationship with this women if you're always acting asexual around her? Christ, she can handle it. You're not going to break her or "surprise" or "corrupt" her like you probably think you will.</p>
<p>The whole point of talking online or texting is to meet in person. Nothing will ever progress without meeting and interacting in person. Try to push for a meet online/phone/facebook. If nothing happens, you can always try flirting with her in person but it already seems like she's not interested in you in that way.</p>
<p>Give it a go, and if it doesn't work out - well this is obvious advice but FIND OTHER WOMEN!! This is college, man - wouldn't you prefer to be dating a woman who is actually attracted to you? Or the hell with my advice, and continue pining after this girl getting nowhere for months.</p>
<p>Luke, you gave good advice.</p>
<p>x93580454 on asking this girl out.</p>
<p>You don't have to confess your feelings for her. Just ask her out to lunch, set a date and place, and then don't talk to her until the date. Let her come to you.</p>