<p>Clare quote:
It’s a nice trick to fold the abusive priests into the argument, but the fact that a tiny minority of priests and bishops miserably failed to live their vocation faithfully discredits neither the faith itself nor those who have the authority to teach it. The truth is that there are sexual predators in every walk of life – priests, cops, rabbis, public school teachers, football coaches, parents, grandparents, uncles, doctors, ministers, executives – and that few institutions have covered themselves in glory in reacting to these abuses.</p>
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<p>Very, very true…a small percentage behaving horrendously…like the rest of the population and rest of various clergy, teachers, etc.</p>
<p>But…of course…it has to get mentioned by all the Catholic-haters…and yes, that’s what’s going on. What certain members of the Church did or didn’t do right during that time has NOTHING to do with the truths that the Church holds dear. The Church doesn’t only have saints as members…it’s full of daily sinners…and some really awful sinners. </p>
<p>What rarely ever gets mentioned is that during what may or may not have been a cover-up, is that many bishops were VERY poorly advised by mental health professionals AT THAT TIME. During those decades it was believed (wrongly!!) that those with disordered attractions to young males could be “fixed” with counseling. So, off to counseling these men went. Obviously, health professionals know differently now…these people cannot be cured…but the Church is being judged without proper context. </p>
<p>Also, when dealing with the minor-aged victims and their families, many of the parents INSISTED (using legal methods) on a cover-up of sorts to protect their kids from teasing, etc. In hindsight, that often protected the guilty, but some parents were more focused on protecting their kids’ than thinking about the future of others…and again, at that time, many believed that these disordered-people could be fixed.</p>
<p>And…Pugmad…your son would have been lovingly welcomed at Nova and other Catholic univs. </p>
<p>The Catholic Church is firm on its teaching that sexual relations should only happen between a man and woman in marriage. The Church doesn’t really distinquish between gay or not-gay in regards to the sex act. Straights who aren’t married to each other aren’t supposed to be having sex, either. So, the Church has a consistent message. That doesn’t mean that it hates the young couple (gay or straight) that is having sex. No. And it doesn’t mean that it hates the man who cheats on his wife (or vice versa). The Church believes the behavior is wrong…but loves all… ALL.</p>